No pain, no gain. Wimps don’t win. All progress takes place outside the comfort zone. We’ve all heard the sayings, but with more and more athletes jumping on the slow and steady bandwagon, is there still a place for a workout that brings tears to your eyes (and lactic acid to every muscle in your body)?

According to Ross Edgeley—a British adventurer, author of The World’s Fittest Book, strength coach and performance nutritionist—there sure as heck is. In fact, it is an essential component of any aspiring athlete’s success.

Increasing your pain tolerance.

Throughout such feats as running 30 marathons in 30 days and swimming around the entirety of Great Britain in 157 days, all while maintaining a physique that puts the hulk to shame, Ross has proved that cardio and muscle building are not mutually exclusive.

He has also proved that it is not your genetically pre-determined pain threshold that decides your ability to become a successful (and insanely ripped) athlete—it is your learned ability to tolerate said pain. And although this skill is particularly relevant to endurance athletes, it is applicable across the board.

So—without taking it too far and causing yourself an injury—every self-respecting fitness (or muscle building) fanatic should listen to the celebrated strongman’s tips for increasing your pain tolerance (and thus your ability to train at a higher level).

Taking to Instagram with a dramatic shot of him running sprints in the fells, Ross yesterday took what any other bloke would use as a Tinder profile and turns it into a lesson.

“Today’s training: sprints on the fells to recalibrate the mind & perception to pain,” the post begins. Ross then explains how his penchant for punishment was inspired by Emil Zátopek, who is widely considered the greatest runner of the 20th century.

“He’s best known for winning 3 gold medals at the 1952 Summer Olympics in Helsinki (5k, 10k and marathon),” Ross points out: “But the reason Zátopek is a hero of mine is because his success had little to do with his running technique, but rather his unparalleled work ethic and resilience to pain.”

“He (Zátopek) famously said, ‘It’s at the borders of pain and suffering that the men are separated from the boys. Essentially, we distinguish ourselves from the rest. If you want to win something, run the 100 meters. If you want to experience something, run a marathon.'”

“What Zátopek understood,” Ross continues, “Is training (not only) expands the capabilities of the muscles and heart but also recalibrates the brain’s horizons and perceptions to pain.”

“This is based on research… (from) the European Journal of Physiology who found high intensity training does not change your pain sensitivity (the point at which you notice pain), but can increase pain tolerance (how long you’re willing to endure pain).”

As for ways to practice: one need look no further than Ross’s Instagram, which features an array of activities that would intimidate even the most avid masochist.

Exhibit A.

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Exhibit B.

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Exhibit C.

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Exhibit D.

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HOW TO push beyond perceived fatigue and physical limit (taken from this week’s #greatbritishswim episode | see link in bio)… “Because of the body’s innate, in-built self-preservation mechanisms and desire to maintain homeostasis, we are often more powerful than even our own minds allow us to believe as the brain will override your physical ability to run, swim or cycle for a set pace or distance and “shut the body down” before you’re able to do serious or permanent damage to yourself. If you learn to override this ability (safely) you are capable of tapping into your most powerful and primitive state.” BIG thank you to my Brocean brother @jamesappletonphotography who perfectly sums this up on this picture taken post 20 mile swim

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Summer may be around the corner for those up north but for other parts of the world, rocking sandals and your swimming briefs to the shops just won’t cut it this winter (or any other time for that matter). This is your guide on how to rock different kinds of knitwear for any season but before that, the first order of men’s knitwear that needs to be discussed: neckline.

Crew Neck, V-Neck & Fabrics

These are the two main types of styles for men’s knitwear. Whilst the choice comes down to your aesthetic preferences, it’s long been said that v-necks tend to elongate the neck to benefit those with fuller faces whilst crew necks suit those with more oval faces. In regards to materials, knitwear will most often come in wool, wool blend or the more luxurious cashmere. Each one has its benefits and specific care instructions so pay attention how you wash and wear these. Also stay away from full polyester or acrylic-based knitwear as the cheaper material often retains body odour and fairs a bit worse than natural fibres in keeping you warm.

How To Wear Knitted Cardigans

The classic knitted cardigan needs to be a staple in every man’s closet. As an outerwear piece it can take you through the most unpredictable transitional seasons where the day could start warm and end cold. On its own, simply wear it over printed tees, plain tees and pair it with denim for a casual yet stylish look. Pay attention to colour and patterns though as what you want here is good contrast as demonstrated by Ryan Gosling. There are just two crucial rules when rocking knitted cardigans: 1] Ensure it’s nicely fitted. Heavy weaves can be a bit baggy but not to a point where it hangs off you. 2] If you’re going to button up, leave the last button undone exactly like a waistcoat.

How To Wear Knitted Sweaters

The classic crew neck knitted sweater is one of the most versatile pieces you could own when a tee just won’t cut it. Worn as a layering option, they provide any look with depth and detail thanks to the textures on hand (cable knit, fine woven, etc). On warmer days knitted sweaters can be paired with nicely fitted shorts whilst for casual duties the piece can be paired to fitted denim and boots. When it’s time for layers, simply throw over a bomber jacket, denim jacket or blazer along with a dress shirt and tie and you have one hell of a handy garment. Quick tip: If you’re going to wear a crew neck sweater with a suit, make sure it’s a lighter thread as you don’t want to look like the Michelin man.

How To Wear Knitted Vests

Made famous by the most stylish golfers, English farmers and collegiate prep boys, the knitted vest is a more traditional way to stay warm whilst looking ridiculously sharp. As with knitted crew necks, they can be used in endless ways but the most common is in formal to smart casual occasions. On its own, knitted vests can be worn over dress shirts with or without a tie, over polo shirts for a more casual look and paired with suits for a dapper look. Make sure to play with patterns and colour contrast here as the goal is to let the vest do the talking.

Knitted Turtlenecks

Turtlenecks are already a winter warrior’s best friend but throw in a knit variant and you have a proper piece designed for braving the cold. Before getting into the look, we have to reiterate to avoid full polyester or acrylic-based knitwear here. Given that the garment will be worn close to the body and insulating heat, you will sweat into it and breathable natural fibres like merino manage this best. Also, there’s nothing worse than having an itchy neck from rough synthetic fibres of a turtleneck. Pair knitted turtlenecks with jackets and blazers whilst pairing them with denim or chinos. There’s no need to pair them to collared shirts and ties as they’ll be hidden anyway.

Knitted Shawl Collars Sweaters

More popular amongst the Brits and Europeans is the shawl neck or shawl collar sweater. It’s not a cardigan, it’s not a turtleneck, it;s a bit of both. And this is what makes knitted shawl collars so popular amongst the more style conscious men. As with most of the knitwear here, pair it with a blazer, wear it over a polo shirt or go the full monty by layering it with a  dress shirt, tie and field jacket.

Knitted V-neck Sweaters

Arguably the most popular and easiest to wear knits for men is the v-neck sweater. The versatility paired with the modern aesthetic of this staple piece means that it can keep you looking cool and staying warm for almost any occasion. Suit it up as a layer between a blazer and dress shirt, go casual as a piece worn over a tee or just wear it on its own paired with denim. Either way it will work so long as you give it contrast or match its colour with your bottoms. For added texture and detailing play around with the knitwear patterns. Cable knit is another winner here which can add character without going overboard.

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Looking for the best carry-on luggage for your next trip? Look no further. We’ve rounded up the brands producing some of the best carry-on luggage today, that will make your trip from door to door that much easier.

Of course, luggage brands will cater to every type of traveller. Whether you’re someone who likes to fly premium and wants a carry-on bag to match your sleek exterior, or you just need a simple cabin bag that will happily take a beating when stowed away, these luggage brands have it all.

The best carry-on luggage will make your travelling experience a whole lot more efficient. Get it wrong and you’ll be searching through your entire bag to get your boarding pass looking like a fool at the gate. Getting your luggage right will make travel far more enjoyable and impress not only your colleagues or partner, but you’ll be the envy of other travellers, too.

If you want to take your travel up a notch and make it even more efficient, then you should also look at investing in a set of packing cubes to better organise your carry-on bag.

It can be overwhelming to decide what kind of carry-on luggage you want or need, especially with all the different types of carry-on bags that are available.

Carry On Suitcases

If you’re spending a little longer abroad or need to carry a lot your best bet is a small carry-on suitcase or a rolling luggage bag. Rolling luggage bags tend to be bigger than their soft shell cousins, will allow you to pack more in & will be easier to carry. And, naturally, the benefit of wheels will make drifting through the terminal a breeze.

Carry-on suitcases are perfect for business trips as you’ll be able to roll through the airport into the boardroom with ease. Plus, carry-on suitcases can give you a look of sophistication and can potentially get you bumped up a class.

Duffel and Weekender Bags

The duffel bag has long been a staple for men. Their versatility, practicality, and aesthetic appeal leave them unrivalled in the bag department. There is a vast array of materials, sizes, and styles available today, but be warned duffel bags are really only good as a carry-on luggage option for shorter trips or if you travel really lightly.

A great leather duffel bag is a good investment, care for it properly and it could outlast you.

Backpacks

If you’re the kind of guy who considers himself more of a ‘traveller’ or ‘adventurer’ than someone just going on holiday, a backpack is likely to be your weapon of choice when it comes to carry-on luggage. Function over form, right?

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No matter the style of bag you’re after, these brands are the ones producing some of the best carry-on luggage currently available.

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Getting an upgrade has always been associated with grovelling, grooming and acquiring more frequent flyer points than is possible in one lifetime (and using them before they expire). However, one Business class traveller just proved there is another way—in the process earning himself ‘legendary’ status among the check-in staff.

So stop Googling “how to hack an airline’s air miles server”, and read how John Burfitt—thanks to an “unreasonably irate” passenger, ended up in a place he “only ever dreamt of” (First Class).

“I was flying business class,” he explains on Escape—a popular travel website—”And was thrilled to be in the pointy end of the plane. Stepping up to the check-in desk, the helpful agent said he would pick a good seat for me.” So far so normal.

However, just seconds later, fury exploded at the desk next to him. “‘But I only ever sit in 12B in business, and won’t sit anywhere else,’ shrieked (an) incensed man, jabbing his finger at the check-in agent. ‘I don’t care what you have to do, get me my seat now!'”

Listening in, John heard the check-in agent reply, “Sir, you didn’t pre-book that seat and it has already gone, but I promise to find you another great seat.”

“She might well have told him he was going to have to sit on a bucket for how he reacted.”

“’Listen, you get me 12B or else,’ he roared. ‘I don’t want any other seat on this plane, so fix this catastrophe!’,” John heard, as he looked down at his boarding pass and saw he had the ‘prized’ 12B.

Just as John whispered to his agent, “I’m happy to move if it’s going to avoid this—give him my seat,” his agent’s phone rang, and a brief conversation occurred, unbeknownst to John, proving that Karma does sometimes exist.

 

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“As my fellow passenger was turning crimson with rage, my agent hung up the phone and turned to the man. ‘Sir, that was my supervisor and it seems there is something we can do about this after all—please give me your boarding pass,’ my oh-so-polite agent announced.”

He then printed out two new boarding passes and handed Mr. Important the seat he wanted. Then, without pause, he turned to our mate John and handed him the seat Mr. Important may have ended up in had he kept his trap shut: First Class seat 1A.

“With a smile so sickly sweet it could have cut glass, the agent then said, ‘I hope you both enjoy your flight.'”

Oh, and as John describes, the reaction of Mr Important was equally satisfying: “I glanced over at the other passenger and his mouth was literally hanging open. In fact, the news he had actually got what he demanded had stunned him into silence. He shuffled away.”

Then, an hour or so later, he then walked into the coveted First Class, passing Mr Important on his way in: “The sound of the curtain swishing closed behind me as I stepped into the hallowed space was all part of this sweet victory.”

“Then came the flow of Moet, the chef-designed menu, the pyjamas and best of all, the chair which looked more like a couch and would soon become a bed.”

 

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“I wanted to say I have never had such job satisfaction upgrading someone as I did today with putting you up here, while also managing to get that other man into his preferred seat.”

So, our lesson for today? Never forget the power of a check-in agent and—more than being careful what you wish for—be careful how you wish for it.

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Denim jackets are a modern-day wardrobe essential. Durable and rugged, the denim jacket was birthed more than one hundred years ago; an offshoot from the denim jeans, overalls and boiler suits worn by miners and factory workers in early 20th century America.With a history steeped in reckless charm, mid-century cowboys picked up the perennial men’s jacket, before bikers and punk rockers went renegade with denim, speeding on in darker washes with logos and patches. Hippies then had their way with the denim jacket flower-power style; embroidery and embellishments on faded blue hues. This was followed by nineties hip-hop heroes, millennial workwear wannabes, and the more recent Japanese denim aficionados of the noughties.Nowadays, you can take your pick from all these pop-cultural cues and more, as contemporary designers source quality denim (from Italy, America, and Japan) and make sleek cuts (that rival the flattery of a blazer) for a denim jacket that’ll look good on any man.

Different styles of Denim Jackets

Classic / Washed Denim Jacket

Invest in a classic denim jacket that can be worn for most casual occasions. Pair it with black jeans or chinos, add a white shirt and you’ve got yourself a foolproof smart casual look.

Distressed Denim Jacket

Get the street approved look with a distressed denim jacket. Rips, paint, and general wear-&-tear in all the right places. Pair your distressed denim jacket with jeans and chunky sneakers for a winning look.

Oversized Denim Jacket

The latest trend is to go big or go home when it comes to your denim jacket; oversized and wide is all the rage. Pair your jacket with straight-legged trousers and clean sneakers.

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From vintage truckers to punkish patches to flight jackets with shearling collars, here are some of the best denim jackets to rock like a rebel (or a pseudo cowboy).Team yours with chinos, summer shorts, or even suit separates for a high-low smart casual look for the weekend. The only warning? If worn with jeans – a la double denim – the denim jacket must be in a lighter shade. There’s nothing ‘hey y’all’ about that.

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The Statue of Liberty. Lebron James. The Golden Gate Bridge. Marilyn Monroe. When you think of American icons, a number of great personas and monuments come to mind. However—although you can walk across the likes of the Grand Canyon and the Golden Gate Bridge—none of them have five-star hotels built in.

This is about to change, as one of the most iconic airports on earth—New York’s JFK—has opened a hotel (available now for bookings) in it’s TWA terminal, so that passengers can experience the redesigned landmark in true style.

But first—for those uninitiated in postmodern architectural history—what’s the deal with this building? Isn’t it just another airport hotel? Well: two points.

Point one: cultural history. As Type7 points out, “In 1962 American-Finnish architect Eero Saarinen completed the design for what has become known as one of the most iconic airports on earth, the TWA terminal at New York’s JFK.”

“In 1994 the building was determined a historical landmark, thereby preventing its demolition. In 2016 construction began on the conversion of the terminal from derelict landmark to a functional hotel, and finally, in May 2019 guests will be able to spend the night there.”

Point two: luxury. As the following images show, this is no Bangkok sleep pod or Gatwick motel. This is a pleasure temple chock with in-flight artefacts (think: gilded playing cards, silver serving ware, vintage furniture etc.) from a more elegant era, and the most up to date modern amenities.

 

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In 1962 American-Finnish architect Eero Saarinen completed the design for what has become known as one of the most iconic airports on earth, the TWA terminal at New York’s JFK. In 1994 the building was determined a historical landmark, thereby preventing its demolition. In 2016 construction began on the conversion of the terminal from derelict landmark to functional hotel, and finally, in May 2019 guests will be able to spend the night there (in purpose) @twahotel. Reservations are officially open for booking • : @twahotel

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“Two new buildings behind the terminal (are now ready to) house the hotel’s 512 guestrooms.”

According to Hotel Business, the TWA hotel will include:

• Six restaurants, including the Paris Café, and eight bars, including The Sunken Lounge.
• An Intelligentsia coffee bar and coffee carts throughout the hotel grounds.
• High-end retail outlets.
• 50,000 sq. ft. of event space, including a 15,000-sq.-ft. ballroom.
• A rooftop pool and observation deck.
• The world’s biggest gym.
• A Lockheed Constellation “Connie” L-1649A transformed into a cocktail lounge.

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We’re all aware of the dangers of processed meat, which has been linked to colorectal cancer for some time, with the World Health Organisation urging people to moderate their consumption back in 2015. Since then, red meat—even the fresh, natural kind—has come under fire too.

Despite its prominence in a few hardcore Low Carb regimes (and the carnivorous diet’s alleged ability to ease the symptoms of autoimmune diseases), others have taken the World Health Organisation literally, written red meat off as a carcinogen, and started avoiding it altogether.

In light of this, more people than ever are considering a vegan diet. Last year, for instance, sales of vegan food (in the US) rose 10 times faster than food sales as a whole, MacDonalds started selling vegan burgers, and Big Meat companies started investing in “fake meat” technologies.

Oh and in 2019 alone, experts predict that nearly 3 million people will go vegan.

However, as Max Lugavere, a health and science journalist, nutrition guru and New York Times bestselling author pointed out in his latest Instagram post, vegan meats may not be as healthy as you would think.

In a post entitled, “Which side are you on? (Asking without judgement),” Lugavere accidentally-on-purpose triggered the vegan population of Instagram, by laying out the Ingredient List Gap behind a quality pack of beef mince and a vegan patty.

 

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Which side are you? (Asking without judgement.) . The left side is an ultra-processed attempt to recreate meat, loaded with questionable ingredients like canola oil. It also contains very little nutritional value other than protein which comes from the pea protein isolate. . The right side is organic, 100% grass fed beef. It contains protein but is also loaded with vitamin B12, vitamin E, heme iron, creatine, zinc, omega-3 and 6 fats, and others. . Personally I would pick the right side any day, and avoid the left side, but I understand that people have different views on this topic. From the standpoint of nutrition, however, it seems pretty clear which is the winner. . What do you think? Max • • • • • #lchf #keto #lowcarb #ketogenic #lowcarbhighfat #paleo #ketosis #primal #ketodiet #paleodiet #carnivore #beef #meat #bge #paleolifestyle #favoritemeal #beefitswhatsfordinner #atkins #glutenfree #grainfree #ketogenicdiet #whole30 #castironcooking #sugarfree #meatporn #culinaryarts #chefstagram #castiron #jerf #steak

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“The left side is an ultra-processed attempt to recreate meat, loaded with questionable ingredients like canola oil. It also contains very little nutritional value other than protein which comes from the pea protein isolate,” Lugavere wrote.

“The right side is organic, 100% grass-fed beef. It contains protein but is also loaded with vitamin B12, vitamin E, heme iron, creatine, zinc, omega-3 and 6 fats, and others,” he continued.

“From the standpoint of nutrition, however, it seems pretty clear which is the winner.”

A fight between vegans and non-vegans immediately broke out in the comments, with many people forgetting two key ‘ingredients’. Firstly, Max Lugavere is not talking about morals. He is referring specifically to nutrition and—even more specifically—to two specific products, rather than the nutritional merits of the vegan vs. omnivorous diet as a whole.

One vegan spectacularly missed the point, leaving a comment that he felt more accurately represented the beef patty’s ingredient list.

“Ingredients: Ground Beef that live ass to ass and are injected with 50+ different concoctions to stay alive and stay hungry 24/7 to grow as fast as possible. Each patty consisting of over 50+ different cows to speed up any cross contamination in the process. NOT to mention leave a huge carbon footprint on our already decimating planet.”

To which Mr. Lugavere responded, “k.”

Another wrote: “MAYBE you should be preaching more of balance & education instead of playing sides like a 3 yr old. (Without Judgement)… Both products have their pros and cons.”

While yet another pointed out that to be a vegan you don’t have to eat vegan patties: “For my plant-based friends, a homemade black bean burger would be a much better option or stick to natural sources of plant protein—there’s a reason why impossible burger is called impossible burger – you need processed junk to create it.”

This was backed up by comments like, “I think if one became a vegan or vegetarian by choice, I don’t see the need for ‘imitation’ meats. Nature has provided us with so much,” and, “I’m team ‘no meat’. But I haven’t consumed any processed foods in years.”

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Whether you just got out of a relationship or you’ve always been a platinum-level Tinderite, every man goes through a ‘devil may care’ era at some point in his life.One Romeo-esque encounter turns into another, and before you know it every time you look in the mirror you give yourself a wink and call yourself Lothario.Just one problem: the people you’re oh-so-casually dating may not see it that way. In fact, if Reddit is anything to go by, they may be sniggering behind your back (or critiquing your ‘moves’ on an 881k member strong internet forum).In the AskWomen section of Reddit, a bastion of feminine insight, the question, “Women who have slept with a lot of men, what are your surprising insights?” was recently posed. Although there were some banal (and bizarre) answers—there were also a lot of ‘handy’ tips.So: these are the biggest mistakes guys make when sleeping around—plus how to fix them. Your partner/partners can thank us later…

Claiming To Be Kinky When You’re Really Not

One of the biggest disappointments women expressed was, “(The) men that are excited to tell you they are kinky usually aren’t.”And the biggest turn-on? Guys who are subtle about their bedroom ‘proclivities’: “It’s always the guys who you think would be vanilla who turn out to be the nastiest (in a good way).”

Exaggerating Your ‘Skillset’

Following on from being misleading about your ‘kinkiness’, according to female commenters, the number of men who exaggerate their experience and/or skill set is “disappointingly high.”

“I’ve had a dude spend all night sweet talking me about how he was turned into a monster in bed, and when I asked him to slap me he just sorta caressed my face. Wouldn’t even slap my ass for real.”

Not Being Able To Multi-Task

Although this is less of an expectation and more of a bonus, the consensus of the thread was that, “If you find yourself a man who uses his hand to stimulate you (at the same time you’re) having sex, he’s a keeper.”On the flip side, if your partner would rather do it themself, as the following story shows, let them: “One of mine felt inadequate if I stimulated myself and insisted on doing it himself. Then, no matter what directions I gave he just couldn’t get it right.”

“I didn’t enjoy sleeping with him at all. I could neither take the wheel and make it good for myself nor enjoy his completely wrong motions.”

Not Having A Good Attitude

The resounding opinion on this topic is best expressed in one comment, “If a guy is an asshole, he’s going to make you feel like crap after you sleep with him. It doesn’t matter what your intentions are.”On the contrary, “If a guy is decent, you’ll feel fine afterward, even if it was just a one night stand.” So keep tabs on your attitude and motivation.

Going Too Fast

This one seems to come with experience, with many pointing out, “The younger they are, the faster they fuck thinking that will make you orgasm.” However, “The older ones know that a good pace is key and understand the importance of communication.”

Being Too Proud To Take A Back Seat

Although most of us don’t have a problem with this, the women of Reddit had a rather lengthy discussion around how “guys are usually very open to being told what to do and how to do it right.” Which means that if you’re not part of this majority you’re putting yourself at a disadvantage.

“Getting a woman off gets most guys going. Use this to your advantage often ladies.”

Getting The Wrong Condom Size

Although we know a fair few guys who are deluded the other way round, due to societal pressure and insecurity, the women Redditors reckoned, “Most men with large penises think they are average and most with average penises think they are small.”

“As a result a lot of guys have been using the wrong size condom and hating them as a result.”

One woman said, “When I first started seeing my fiancé condoms would pop allllll the time and he said they were so uncomfortable. Finally, I was like listen, I think those are too small, you should get bigger condoms. He did; they were much more comfortable.”

“He was amazed because he was 29 and had been using too small condoms since he was a teenager, and now we joke about his ‘magnum dong’.”

Assuming You Are Going To Be The Emotionally Detached One

“The idea that men want to f*ck and women want to make love is complete bullshit. I have no idea where that bizarre idea came from.” ‘Nough said.

Relying Purely On Your Looks

One woman revealed how, for her, “Feeling comfortable and not pressured is more a determining factor (in good sex) than how hot a guy is.”

“If I grow comfortable around you and feel like I know you that has way more clout than just plain good looks. I mean this in terms of attraction really and chemistry.”

Choosing The Wrong Partners

Pro tip: “If you’re looking for a FWB situation, find a guy you genuinely like as a person, have sexual chemistry with but have plenty of reasons for not actually dating,” one woman said. “During times when I was not ready or interested in a relationship,” she continued, “I had fantastic FWB situations because we went in with complete honesty.”

Faking An Orgasm

Although men aren’t exactly known for this, one guy jumped in with an awkward situation that a guy can get himself stuck in when he’s too embarrassed to be honest: “We were mid f*cking and she says, ‘Don’t cum’, right before I came; I continued on hoping she wouldn’t notice and uhh…technically fake my orgasm?”

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